My Boyfriend Discovered My Zhihu ResponseCh13 - Not Straight

A Certain Siyan:

It’s been a while since my last update. Now that I got a place with my boyfriend in Shanghai, I have been busy moving. I originally wanted to get a house in his hometown, but Shanghai is where we can develop our careers, so we ended up settling there. It’s not the biggest place, but very homey. Furthermore, my boyfriend graduated and is working on his graduate degree. f5U6ot

I’m speaking from the heart today because a fellow messaged me, asking how I fell for my boyfriend at first sight. He didn’t believe in something like love at first sight.

Fine, using love at first sight is not accurate. What I should have used was love at first sight on top of familiarity breeds fondness.

Story translated by Chrysanthemum Garden.

When I first saw my boyfriend at the subway station, I was really attracted to him. He was wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, and his hair was short and slightly curly. He looked so well-behaved and clean, and he had a unique personality in the chaotic crowd. The cold feeling really lit up my eyes. He was carrying several large bags of things and felt that he could not stand firmly. I had a seat myself, and I wanted to stand up and give my seat to him, but as soon as I got up, he stopped a few steps. It hit me.

When I first set my eyes on my boyfriend at the station, he indeed captured my attention. At that time, he was wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, looking very cute and young, especially with his short hair with a hint of curls. Amidst the chaotic crowd, he shined with this unique solitary feeling. My eyes really lit up at the sight of him. He carried large bags of something, to the point that standing straight was very hard. I had a seat and I wanted to give it up for him. Instead, before I could move far from my seat, he came crashing into me. D5WVdb

My heart skipped more than one beat. His hair smelled so good, and his skin was so soft. I lost control of my brain, and before I knew it, my arms were around him. Fortunately, the train was crowded, so contact was inevitable. My boyfriend didn’t seem to mind, so I maintained the skin contact for a few seconds longer before I begrudgingly drew my hands back.

I had a crush on him on the subway. I didn’t expect him to get off the station soon, but before I got there, I thought that maybe after such a glance, we would go back to the sea of ​​people, and I might never see him again. Well, when I thought about it, no, I had to seize the opportunity, so I followed him out of the car and followed him to the gate of his university. I asked him for WeChat with a face.

I got a pretty good impression of him, but he got off soon after, not at my stop. But the thought of us brushing shoulders in the sea of people before never meeting again, turned my stomach. I must seize the opportunity. So, I got off at the same stop as him, followed him to the campus and shamelessly asked for his WeChat.

Later, we started to stalk each other. My roommates all knew that I was chasing the male idol, and they all laughed at me, saying that they didn’t expect me to be a dog licker. On the one hand, I like the way he is soft-hearted and helpless to me, but on the other hand, I am afraid that he is just soft-hearted and embarrassed to reject me.

Later, I used many different methods to pester him. My roommates knew that I was pursuing my male god. All of them were joking about how they never thought I would be a simp. None of that bothers me because I’m happily simping. My boyfriend is actually quite soft hearted. On one hand, I really like how he hopelessly gets tenderhearted, on the other hand, I was scared that it was the reason he didn’t want to reject me.

At that time, this was basically our conversation:

Me: Hello boyfriend, let’s go on a date!

Him: I need to study. 5TBqvD

Me: That’s fine, I’ll study with you.

Him: …

Me: Hello boyfriend, let’s get something to eat. I know there’s a restaurant that just opened, and I heard their food is pretty good.

Him: It’s too far. W7XR3G

Me: That’s fine. Let’s grab a bite at the canteen instead.

Him: …

Haha, I have prepared against every option anyway to stop all of his route to reject. At first, I got worried if what I was doing was borderline too overbearing. Afterward, I learned that my boyfriend is actually an indecisive person and doesn’t like to make decisions. It was my job now to help him decide on these trivial matters, which is actually quite nice.

How do I describe him? He says he is not handsome, and my friends also say he is ordinary, but I really think he is very good-looking. He is the kind of person who is very attractive. After being with him for so long, sometimes I still feel moved. As time goes by, Let’s get along. In fact, I rely more on him. He has a very unique and calm temperament that few people around me have. He is very down-to-earth and simple, giving people a sense of belonging. TH27rJ

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Well, how do I describe him? He said he is not handsome, and my friends also called him average. But for me, I found him quite good-looking. He is the type that’s easy on the eyes. Even after being together for so long, there are still moments when my heart skipped a beat. As we slowly got to know each other, I actually became more reliant on him. He has this unique calming aura that many people around me rarely have. It was peaceful and simple, giving me a sense of belonging.

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After we got together, I could feel that I was able to open his heart bit by bit but could never fully get inside of it. There was always a barrier between us. That was when this Zhihu incident happened, and I didn’t think it would solve our problem that easily. The two of us get right to the point and talk, and thoroughly accept each other.

This is what I mean by love at first sight on top of familiarity breeds fondness. First, I was moved, then I gave my whole heart to the other party. Just like my boyfriend had said before, to like is to devote to the relationship, to love is to accept responsibility. Many of my friends failed to pass the first stage, and you can’t really blame it on one’s view of love. To me, at the beginning, I put the spurt of energy into living up my feelings, and to walk to this day with my boyfriend was the best thing I could have done right in my lifetime. 8osIui

There are actually many different views between me and my boyfriend, such as my unhealthy living style, against my boyfriend’s healthy living style. I’m more impulsive, while my boyfriend is more cautious. But the idea we have in our relationship is in sync, that is we’ll stay faithful unto death.

I especially want to tell the friend who privately messaged me that he doesn’t believe in love at first sight, that love at first sight is not a necessary condition. It doesn’t matter whether it’s the first time we meet, or whether we fall in love or not. What’s important is that if you really fall in love, you should make the most of it. Keep up the relationship management, because in this era, it is not easy to meet someone who is attracted to you, and it will be a pity to miss it.

I very much wanted to tell the fellow that messaged me about love at first sight: there’s no conditions required to fall in love at first sight. It doesn’t have to be at first sight, or if you fell in love or not. What’s important is to listen to your heart. If your heart was moved, you should follow your heart. Because in this period, finding someone that touched your heart is quite hard, and it would be a pity if you missed your chance.

Discussion (648): WUmLjF

Absolutely: A Certain mister finally showed his face. Very pleased and full by today’s dog food!

All-Seeing Star: I’m crying, so freaking jealous!

Shi Yan: I heard a friend talking about a couple on Zhihu that is especially lovey-dovey, so I came to look for it, except I was too late as the original Zhihu response was long deleted. Now, I can only read the comments and let my fantasy roam wild. I hope they are really as great as everyone made them to be. I’m also gay, and this road is not easy to venture. I also once met someone that touched my heart, but because of various reasons, we didn’t stay together. Now, I have more confidence after reading this story. Here’s my blessing to them, and also my blessing to myself.

Seven Eight Four Ten » Shi Yan: Here’s my blessing, good luck! MBJ1Cf

Absolutely » Shi Yan: I wish you all the best!

Liu Annn: I really want to see their photo!!

Moon That Chases the Sun » Liu Annn: Diddo!

Absolutely » Moon That Chases the Sun: Diddo! tLcG4s

Polish: A Certain mister is also a very sentimental person; I thought guys in IT are not like that.

A Certain Siyan » polish: All credit goes to my boyfriend, for his influence.

polish » A Certain Siyan: Eh~~

Summer Not Hot: No wonder the username is so familiar. I’m in the same university as OP! Let me tell you, OP is not gay at all. I don’t know if this story was fabricated or not, but based on the story described, gong should be from a top university in Shanghai, known for their computer science department. He is very handsome, has a good family background and excellent grades. Plus, the username he is using, it all pointed in the same direction. I have met this senior before, he is indeed very handsome, but he is one of those super serious top students. I have never seen him smile before, and more importantly, this senior is a straight guy! He has a girlfriend, because during our last campus event, someone spotted the senior holding a box of stockings!!! So, does this story have anything to do with him? Is this some dirty fantasy created by some drama queen? BabhRc

Unexpectedly » Summer Not Hot: For real? No way?

Circle Round Circle » Summer Not Hot: Straight man…

Story translated by Chrysanthemum Garden.

Absolutely » Summer Not Hot: Don’t blindly accuse him! He is not a straight guy!

233233 » Summer Not Hot: No way, I don’t buy that. NJyvZV

Sensible Person: What does this mean? Pretended to be gay to get likes?

Qi Xi » Absolutely: That’s impossible. Let’s not get deceived so easily.

Liu Annn » Qi Xi: That’s right, we need to support OP!

A Certain Siyan » Summer Not Hot: Who said a person has to have a girlfriend if they have a box of stockings on them? ztNwAX

Qi Xi » A Certain Siyan: Come again????

Liu Annn » A Certain Siyan: Come again??!!

polish » A Certain Siyan: I suddenly thought of a very dirty image.

“Fu Siyan, what are you posting in the comment section?” Qi Ji rushed into the bedroom with his phone in his hand. Fu Siyan, who was in the middle of having a typing showdown with that person, raised his head. Seeing Qi Jia was here, he instantly tossed his phone to the side. 0jdFPQ

“Darling, you saw it as well? What did you think of my love confession at the beginning? Are you moved?” Fu Siyan quickly attempted to seize the opportunity.

“Yes, it’s very touching…No wait, don’t change the subject. What did you just post online? How am I going to show my face ever again if people I know see it?”

“That’s impossible. You have already deleted your response.”

Qi Jia clenched his teeth in anger. “What if they really saw yours? They just need to look at your username to know it’s you. I can’t have that. You have to delete what you just posted.” kwB2tU

“If I can’t call the person out, how would she know what we have is real?”

Qi Jia used kind words to persuade, “What should you care about what’s written on the internet? Moreover, she goes to your school. It’s not going to be good for your reputation if people in your school learn of this.”

Fu Siyan’s expression changed instantly. “My reputation is not as important as you. If we still have to continue being sneaky on campus, what are we going to do once we start working? Are we going to hide for the rest of our lives?”

Qi Jia knew he had gone out of line with his words. He sat beside Fu Siyan. “I also don’t want us to sneak around, but we still aren’t ready ourselves right now. We don’t have the ability to go against the problems that might happen, right?” CiUS 1

Fu Siyan embraced Qi Jia and bit his ear in gloom. Qi Jia had no choice but to caress the back of Fu Siyan’s hair, helping him to calm down.

“In the future, I will give you a worry-free life.” Fu Siyan promised.

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Qi Jia nodded. He believed and will always believe. Because by believing, could he be indifferent to others’ thoughts.

Fu Siyan suddenly turned around and got out a small paper box from the drawer. Qi Jia could see clearly that it was the box of stockings. PY1oJn

“Darling, look at yourself…” Fu Siyan rested his head in the crook of Qi Jia’s neck and presented the box to Qi Jia, like a precious treasure.

Qi Jia put his hand on his forehead. “Fu Siyan, you hooligan! You and your sexual perversion!”

“Please, pretty please…”

“Yo-you delete the comments you just posted. Also, delete the one sent by the girl as well.” C1DUYn

Fu Siyan squinted his eyes. “If I delete them, will you wear them?”

It felt as if Qi Jia’s temples were throbbing, causing a moment of chaos and confusion in his head.

To wear or not to wear was actually something not up to his decision. Fu Siyan’s persistent skill was quite a force to be reckoned with. He purchased these stockings a week ago, but Qi Jia had rejected them each time. Fu Siyan had been pestering him day in and day out, but Qi Jia remained firm, however, inside, he knew it was a matter of time.

But it was better to just get it over with, rather than prolong the agony. VD9TGJ

“Al..right…”

Fu Siyan was over the moon. He unlocked his phone to delete the discussion, and nearly uninstalled the whole app during his excitement.

Qi Jia has a lanky figure. Because of how slim he was, he appeared more petite than Fu Siyan, but in actuality, his proportion was still decent, especially his round and perky butt. If he lay on the bed on his stomach, it would show off his alluring figure.

Qi Jia accepted his fate and in front of Fu Siyan, he stripped off his clothes and put on the stockings. Then, with his back against Fu Siyan, he obediently got on the bed. M4yGdc

Fu Siyan gulped his saliva and quickly followed after.

Once Fu Siyan got his fill and moved from Qi Jia’s body, the latter was already so tired that no words could be formed. He raised his hand and removed the stockings riddled with slits while thinking about a completely different topic. Heh, how is he a straight man? He is so bent that he is a paperclip.